10 mistakes Ladies make with their guys.

1. Too many questions about the
past:
The fact that your man is in a
relationship with you currently is proof
enough that he is in love with you and
has already gotten over his past
relationships. While it's good to know a
little bit about his past, don't take the
liberty of digging so deep that his
wounds freshen up.

2. Visiting his workplace:
This is quite a sensitive issue as most
men don't like their girlfriends dropping
in at their workplaces without being told.
It is only if you are in a steady
relationship from a long time or engaged
that you can take the liberty of dropping
into your man's workplace uninformed.

3. Bringing up marriage:
If you have been in a relationship for a
long time, it's but natural that you will
talk about marriage and settling down at
some point. You may have a
conversation about this once but don't
bring up the topic again and again. You
will be at a loss if your man gets irritated
by the same conversation taking place
repetitively. It's not that men are averse
to commitment; it's just that they take
some time in taking these important
decisions.

4. Pretending to be someone you
are not:
If there is anything that men hate, it is
lies and hypocrisy. Many women make
the blunder of pretending to be what
they are not in reality. For instance, if
you don't like putting on makeup and
dressing too much for a party, don't do it
just for him. He will immediately sense
your discomfort. He would much rather
appreciate and love your honesty and
expect you to be what you are.

5. Compare financials:
How would you feel if someone
compared your salary figures to that of
your contemporaries? Terrible, surely!
Although in today's world, women see
themselves as equals to men, men still
think of themselves as bread earners of
the family. Treat your man with respect
irrespective of his earning. Don't ever
make the mistake of comparing his
financials with others.

6. Don't attempt to mend him:
Accept him with all his flaws and
abilities. Don't try and mother him to
change his habits according to your
needs. Give your man his space and
watch how that automatically brings him
to you.

7. Giving too much freedom:
If you see your man talking to other
women at most of the parties and even
going to the extent of flirting with them
when you're around, take that as a
warning signal and strike on it as soon as
possible but don't be rude, do it politely
and in style. You may be making a
terrible mistake by trusting your partner
blindly with such behavior.

8. Expecting expression of
feelings all the time:
Men are not used to constant
expression. For instance, you should
expect a compliment from him once in a
while but if you start expecting it every
day then you are calling for trouble. You
have to understand that just because
men don't express the way in which
women freely do; it doesn't mean they
don't love with passion.

9. Talking negatively:
If you bitch about others in front of your
man all the time (once in a while is
acceptable of course), it will make him
feel that someday when you are not
together you will talk about him in the
same way with other people. Don't make
an impression on him that you are a
negative person.

10. Comparing Looks:
Impress your man by showing some
confidence about how beautiful and
attractive you look. It's not your outfit
but your confidence that attracts your
man. In trying to fish for compliments by
comparing your physical appearance
with other women, you are just making
matters worse.
In-addition: Women often commit
blunders with men in relationships. It's a
matter of understanding that men have
a certain way of dealing with things that
is different from women. Once you get
this point, you will be much more
comfortable and at ease in dealing with
the men in your life.

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