Harry! No man would want to propose marriage
to a lady whose phone is always talking and
laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will
likely flee at the slightest chance or
disagreement.
2. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you
will discover that most men dislike excessive
makeup, and more don't even like it at all; reason
they often times discourage their true loved ones
to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even
though so many men will applaud and
complement you for looking like an Egyptian
mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are
out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded,except you are still living in your
high school life and not thinking towards
marriage.
3. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a
single lady who has not been taken to the altar,
you need to reserve some things for your husband
to be, especially your body, respect it and
preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to
marry to get certain things or privileges they had
been constantly denied while being single. Such
privileges include and not limited to: constant sex
and companionship, good food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant sex, good food and
excellent home- keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want
him to desire to marry you when you have given
him virtually everything he desires from a wife
while being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking,
home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why
would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for
life?
4. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt
to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to
guys, you have derailed from appealing to
appalling. In fact you look more whorish than
modest; more distractive than attractive, and
more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing
style determines who gets attracted to you most
times. If you dress high school, only high school-
thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you
dress excessively sexy and provocative, only
randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction
of their immediate sex urge, so don't be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they
are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't
like to be associated with, be careful. Remember,
not all clothes that look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul mate single lady
.
5. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect
to find a husband when you still allow your clique
of friends to be dictating which man you meet is
worthy of your love and which is not? When will
you wake up and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you, wouldn't
want you to marry before them or to marry the
best man?
6. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and
home chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing
the role of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to modern media that
promotes gender-equalityin a destructive way
that's aimed at destroying the unique African
family setting that made our previous African
marriages everlasting and envious to the
westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire to marry when he
knows he is only buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?
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