6 Attitudes Ladies Should Not Reveal To Men

No one is perfect but we should be able to caution
our attitudes sometimes. Not only do guys make
mistake with girls,the girls
have their faults too,there are some things that are
common with some ladies. Here are some
mistakes ladies should not make with guys :
1. Being too forward: When a guy approaches you,
there are reasons to his actions. Its either because he
likes you,need an help from you or something else.
Girls are fond of saying "he just wants to toast
me,that's all and am not interested,so what's the
point answering him". Chill girls,some just need your
friendship,help etc,try to get his route first,don't be
too forward.
You might be wrong. Just pretend you don't know
that's the likely thing on his mind. Give him the
space to be himself. When you are able to picture his
motive then you can try being smart with it.
2. Drawing conclusions too soon: When a guy
asks for a date,we always feel he is going to ask for a
romantic relationship at that end,though it is
common that way but let's still honour them if we
have the chance to and allow him speak his mind,
Maybe he just wants to know you better or start a
friendship before speaking his mind. We shouldn't
just tell him to his face that " I know you brought
me here to tell me you love me,so just start
talking" .It shouldn't be that way,let him have his
way as a man because when you tell a man that you
know his intentions and he then feels embarrassed
about it,he may decide to change it and tell you it
was something else, and at the same time you could
also be wrong,so its better you let him do the talking
and you do the answer.
3. Trying to impress Men: Ladies are fond of
impressing guys about their worth,let him find out
himself. Humility pays! Don't flaunt your luxuries at
him, he might feel intimidated,and if
you try bragging about it,he would not want to mix
up with a lady of pride and such exuberance. Just be
a classic woman,let him explore more to find out
about you . Don't piss him off yourself. A
guy wouldn't want a proud woman in his life. If you
are lucky to have all what you need in high taste, just
be low about it because men usually observe a ladies
attitude from the very moment he sets his eyes on
her. Always be real.
4. Being too quick to express your feelings: Am
not saying you shouldn't express yourself but please
be careful about it. Guys have a lot of motives
towards girls but yet he remains nice and calm,the
kind of guy you want. Don't get carried
away by his beauty. Yes,we have
handsome,tall,cute guys that you will wish to be
around but not all have good intentions. Not all are
meant for you too. Don't quote me wrong. He might
just need your body or your love. Try finding out well
before showing that you admire him. Hmmmmn,from
experience,it is still preferable for a guy to express
his likeness first.
Its not a matter of African mentality but we still have
guys that will take advantage of you if you show too
much. Well,its your choice to flaunt it all at him.
Remain reserved. You can only express freely when
there is something going on already.
5. Telling him your problems: Some ladies now
feel its so comfortable to tell a guy about their
problems on the first date. The fact is that some girls
do it to get a quick cash from men while some can be
real. Since guys have the mentality that you are only
trying to get their money,he
would either believe you and spend it or promise and
fail you. Some guys now judge all girls as the same
likewise girls,so no matter what you say or do,he still
feels you are up to something. So be careful how and
when you relate your issues so as not to push him
off.
6. Acting like a flirt: Some girls now think that the
best and fastest way to get a guy is being hot and
sexy. Wearing dresses that shows off too much and
acting like a Naughty Lady around him. Stop that!
Keep your dignity for someone special. Stop flaunting
it at all guys. They would get a wrong signal and flow
with you that way. They would see you as a cheap
girl. Be modest in dressing, speech etc. There is one
special guy out there that would love your simplicity
and love you that way.
Well,I don't expect all girls to be in support of these
because many believe in dressing and looking hot
and the likes. This is for ladies who believe in self
worth and practice it that way.
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